I don't want to punish my son I was just curious if that would be seen by her as appeasing. You're right. I want to and will put up the trampoline.

As far as dinner is concerned I hope I can go and be detached. I'll just feel awkward because I'm not really sure how to do that while we're both sitting there. But I want to go. I want my son to be happy.

Me:37, W:33, S:7
T:10 total (split while she was in college)
M:3
S:2/4/15
EA confirmed: 3/7/15
D mentioned numerous times since 2/4/15, nothing filed...yet