And there won't be. Not anytime soon. As Mozz wisely says, focus on yourself, and be on the lookout for any additional places where you may need to lay a healthy boundary. The bed was a great Step #1. Feels great, don't it?
Starsky
P.S. If she again tells you "You can sleep it the bed, it's no problem" just stop what you're doing, stare at her incredulously for a couple of seconds like you're perplexed, and say something like "Ummmmm, ok. Yes, of course." And then go bed.
