Since we are still living together, and we have our son, we have continued to mention when we have plans or are going out. I mentioned today that I have an appointment this evening, and may go out afterwards. My "appointment" is an oil change for the car. I may really go out, too. Not sure what I will do, but I'll find something, movie, walk, read in the park, play chess at the coffee shop, it's all GAL to me!