Originally Posted By: Zelda09
Koa,
Unless your W anger is abusive to you? Shaming, belittling, name calling?


No name calling or shaming. I think she tries to be fair. But she can become loud and pushing if she really wants something and does not get it. In our M one of her problems has been, that she has lost every respect for me. She thought of me as a wimp and I guess she was right about it. I avoided conflicts with the landlord, with other parents that have treated our child unfair, with our neighbours...you name it. She needed a man that stood up for her and the family, that took the responsibility for making more money. And that man wasn't me.

Last edited by koalada; 04/17/15 05:10 PM.

Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out