New to this. Need support. Separated.

[PureHrt]

My H is not living at home and doesn't have access to my computer but I will not leave my books out for sure!

The biggest challenge I find is in appeasing and giving in to him physically. I want to show him love and I always have. However, I hit the section in DB book where it talks about doing the same thing over and over...it becomes part of the problem. Sigh. It really does mean redefining ourselves too.

Naive me....I love the physical times with my H and have always recognized that is one area where women do need to show their love for their H. If I am detaching so not doing anything for him and am not expressing my love in a physical sense how do I satisfy MY NEED to express love? Thoughts? How do I turn off my need for interactions with my H?

Thanks!