Thanks Starsky309. I have been in contact with sexual addiction specialists and am working through their program for spouses. I do believe that the topics here will still help me. I still need to detach, I still need to find hope in others reconciliations, I still need to hear suggestions on how to be a good person while setting boundaries. I do sometimes question whether he is an addict or if that was a convenient response when he finally got caught out but then I read the 'symptoms' and it just all fits frown My journey must just take a lot longer I'm afraid. _________________________
I would also add that a lot of my feelings and his actions parallel the situations I read about on this forum
Last edited by PureHrt; 04/17/1504:46 PM.
Cheers, PureHrt 18 years married, 22 years together Separated since Jan (2nd time in 3 years) 1 child