Thanks Starsky309. I have been in contact with sexual addiction specialists and am working through their program for spouses. I do believe that the topics here will still help me. I still need to detach, I still need to find hope in others reconciliations, I still need to hear suggestions on how to be a good person while setting boundaries. I do sometimes question whether he is an addict or if that was a convenient response when he finally got caught out but then I read the 'symptoms' and it just all fits frown My journey must just take a lot longer I'm afraid.
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I would also add that a lot of my feelings and his actions parallel the situations I read about on this forum smile

Last edited by PureHrt; 04/17/15 04:46 PM.

Cheers,
PureHrt
18 years married, 22 years together
Separated since Jan (2nd time in 3 years)
1 child