OK, another Q.

Although W, will be staying at parent's house while I am home. She will be attending Kids events. She will drive separately.

I plan to wear some of my new clothes and look my best. At the last soccer game, she would "scooch" close to me and I would inch away. At one point she reached for my hand to hold. I brushed her off. Eventually, I let her sit close to me and patted her leg.

That night she kissed me before going to bed, and lingered awhile before doing so. The next morning, she kissed D and S and then patted me on the cheek. Later that evening, I told her I preferred the kisses and not the pats. (this was before reading Sandi's thread). I think she's just manipulating. But she says sometimes I'm attracted to you and other times I'm not.

I'm wondering if I should be really nice and outgoing showing confidence and talking to other parents and just sit at the opposite side of the gymnasium or just sit next to her. I think one of things that got her attracted to me at the last soccer game is that I was talking to her Dad's bosses W and cracking jokes and we were both laughing about the kids. I think W was a little jealous. Also, we know most of the parents and I think she may have been just trying to not let it be known that we're struggling.

Last edited by SadDood; 04/17/15 04:01 PM.

M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D