So I have moved back and W is pretty angry about it. *She tried to make me feel guilty "have you got an idea, how painful it is for the children?", *tried to impose conditions on me"when you move back, I want you to sign a separation agreement and go with me to mediation"), *tried the dominant approach "you will not move in!"
My first impulse was, to give up and say anything to get out of the conflict. But I stayed polite, but firm and now I am back home. My mattress, my slatted frames.
What are your experiences with mediation or separation agreements? Can they become a disadvantage for my situation? And regarding the "living together", what should I be aware off? Any traps, any danger zones? My plan is to GAL and spent time with the kids and I am looking for a full-time position in order to double my income.
Last edited by koalada; 04/17/1503:58 PM.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
