Yes, I agree with Barb, I didn't get a lot of positive vibes from you about the impending I do.

Slow down.

This is something I use at work, you may have seen it or even used it just in a different setting. It helps people learn to weigh R/Bs.

Benefits-easy, What are the benefits?
Risks-again, list the risks as YOU see them
Alternatives-Are there alternatives?
Nothing-What might happen if you do nothing?

How much anger are you carrying at yourself?


Now-Does it have to be done now?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss