(This was written following ralliced's post so it's a little out of context.)

I know that it hits us in a personal and hurtful way. But do we need to latch on to that and make decisions from that place? Or can we see it for what it is and let it go knowing full well that a lot of what happens in D is orchestrated by people not emotionally involved and it's done for effect?

I see lots of people veer into crazyland at this point, with personal attacks flying because ego has been hurt.

When all we are is ego, it's very easy to go that route. I'm raising my hand here, cause that was me. You hurt me, I hurt you.

Maybell, I think you've come a long way on this road to a place where you can read that offer, feel the pang of it but then say, I don't have to let this control me or my actions. I'm in control of me and my actions. I will let the emotion pass and think about this with a clear head.

((( )))

Last edited by labug; 04/17/15 01:54 PM.
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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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