What if she refuses my request to stop calling/texting in the house?
When she calls/texts now, it's been a "don't ask, don't tell" thing. It's the white elephant I the room that we don't talk about.
ALL affairs are destructive -- financially, emotionally, spiritually, sometimes even to your physical health. All of 'em.
But among THE most destructive, in my opinion, is when a woman is cheating, her husband knows, and she knows that you know . . . and yet you ignore it.
It's emasculating for you, and for it absolutely KILLS attraction (and therefore, respect, and therefore . . . love, since women tie their feelings of love very closely to their feelings of respect for a man).
It's one thing when the betrayed spouse doesn't know, and then some other situations they know but they don't let on that they know (sometimes out of fear, but sometimes also for tactical reasons). But when you DO know? And she KNOWS that you know????
