I had a long talk with the junior partner yesterday and a meeting scheduled with both attorneys next week. It's not the final because I won't sign it. I've identified my non-negotiables and have a defensible alimony plan.
I'm also planning a letter that I want my lawyers to review that will state my main concerns to stbx. He shafted the kids one way in his draft that has nothing to do with me, so it may not sway him, but as with the marriage, if it doesn't work I will have done everything I can do.
I'm in a totally different place today from yesterday. I am MIGHTY.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15