I wonder, Maybell, if being a strong, confident woman who knows her value will allow your daughter to end up with someone who will value and respect her.
For me, if this had to a happen in order to break the pattern of unhealthy women in my family, it will be a blessing. And getting to be the one that breaks that pattern? That's kind of awesome.
You are an amazing mom and woman. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
BOOM! (imagine fireworks)
MB you moved right through this storm ((( )))
A caution, don't predetermine how this will affect your children because unless you'll be penniless, you don't really know. When we make up a story about the future, that's often the outcome we get.
As Claire said so beautifully above and as I like to say, not all gifts are wrapped in pretty paper with a big bow on top.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss