Hey OG what a turn around. You hear it so many times on this and other forums that when WAW see you moving on something pricks there conscience. They seem to finally see what they're losing.

I have no experience with R so I cant offer any advice other than tread carefully.
Starsky is right in that if your wife truly wants to work it out with you she should be offering to do what ever it takes.

You already know now you will be absolutely fine which ever way its goes. That is a good position to be in.

Good luck


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on