So I was in the bank parking lot sorting out our checking account and who pulls in but my W. We both agree that since we are there at the same time we might as well sign the paperwork to remove W from joint account. As we are sitting in waiting area, we make small talk and I am being cordial with W, even making a few jokes. A couple of times I even saw tears in her eyes as we waited or conversed pleasantly. I talked a little bit about my time with my L, etc.
This spoke to me. I made my X laugh at multiple mediation appointments, the signing of D paperwork, at the House REFI meeting, and multiple other meetings. I hate to discourage positive thought, but it did not help me in anyway that I know of.
Totally agree. Not reading anything into it. Just felt good to be myself. It helped set me at ease for the rest of the day
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
