Nothing was ever said to me, until a couple weeks before BD, when she said she wasn't happy, and that there was nothing I could do to fix it.
Although I normally say not to believe anything she says. I would believe the above quote.
She is unhappy and YOU can not FIX her!
NOTHING you can say or do will FIX her, that she must do herself. You can FIX yourself, and then that may re-attract her back or it may not. You only want her back if she is FIXING herself though - OK?