W immediately phoned me.
"You can not do this."
"We have to talk about it before and make a plan and go to a mediator."
"Think about the negative effects on the children."
"you are trying to put pressure on me."
"How can I leave the M, if you don't let me?"


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out