I have slept a night over my decision. I will move back into the house. I have thought about my co-dependency issue and moving out of the house was a continuation of my "martyr"-behaviour (I suffer and do everything to make my W happy, so other people might discover how wonderful and loving I am). It might be the easier way to be physically detached, but I would never forgive myself being a wimp in this situation and avoid the confrontation. This is not about W, it is about getting out of MY patterns, getting my dignity back. If W starts nagging and yelling, than I have to stand it. This might all end in D, but at least I will keep my dignity and stop this never-ending cycle of pleasing the world with my behaviour. I have to do what is acceptable for me, I am no longer a child that needs the permission of others. Will it cause trouble? Yes! So be it. I will let you know, how she reacted.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
