fair enough - just because it is true and was true long before she met me doesn't mean that i am not criticizing or judging and that is the behaviour you are pointing out. absolutely true.
in context, it is part of the situation being discussed. i am not judging her for it. i am agreeing that generally the LBS should NOT have sent the SMS to the WAS anyway. I am even more stupid because I know she filters everything. KNOWing doesn't make it criticising.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015