fair enough - just because it is true and was true long before she met me doesn't mean that i am not criticizing or judging and that is the behaviour you are pointing out. absolutely true.

in context, it is part of the situation being discussed. i am not judging her for it. i am agreeing that generally the LBS should NOT have sent the SMS to the WAS anyway. I am even more stupid because I know she filters everything. KNOWing doesn't make it criticising.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015