The ring...if you want to talk to him about it, it is up to you. You should ask yoirself what you expect to get from that conversation. You don't want hollow gestures that will cause more resentment. It is really you trying to control him. It bites, but if he does not want to wear it right now than what difference should it make. His actual bhavior is all that matters in the long run.
What if you didn't say anything about it. Act as if, right...throw him a curve ball because you are focusing more on you and less on him. Keeping your PMA up while he is disrespecting your marriage and disregarding you is not easy. Detaching yourself from his crisis will make it easier to cope with the situation. You will be happier because you chose to be happy in the face of this $hit and went out and did things you've wanted for you and your sanity.
