That is good work Defacto. I think you will need to dig a little deeper on what you will need to do or not do in each of these situations, or how to flag the situation to yourself so you can change your response. Changing in this manner is the hardest part, b/c many people act on impulse.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015