As for the text you sent...what was it in reply to? If you initiated it that was your first mistake. But reading back all I see was what you sent her. Can you provide the context that you felt required that response?
The night before I visited with my D4 because she was distressed the previous 2 nights wanting me, and phone calls weren't cutting it. I dropped back with W,slept baby and upon return D4 was crying and W was teary eyed. D4 told W she didn't like her and wanted to stay with me. I was trying to comfort my W, that this is just a passing phase in D4's grief.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015