I have proposed many things, through the mediator, CC the mediator, but I get no response from her ever, about anything. She contacts me on her terms, usually yells at me a bit, which is fair enough, she's angry, and then moves on again
thanks for the encouragement NOT to fall on my sword
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015