Hi Hopefulstill and thank you for your advice and replies. I've been very busy taking care of my son and trying to GAL. And fighting with my W. But I didn't initiate these fights though once baited in I did take part. For over 2 weeks. I finally put my foot in my mouth as you suggested and have not engaged in another fight. Actually if you will see the last few posts that I posted today I saw some pretty unbelievable results from putting my foot in mouth. I wish I would've had the control to do it sooner but I'm learning. It's a plan I'm going to follow from here on out as well as the rest of your advice.
Me:37, W:33, S:7 T:10 total (split while she was in college) M:3 S:2/4/15 EA confirmed: 3/7/15 D mentioned numerous times since 2/4/15, nothing filed...yet