Quick question - s13 is playing 7th grade baseball. He is not on a travelling team, he just plays normal Babe Ruth baseball. So W has now mentioned 3 times to me that she has a male "friend" who played some level of professional baseball (he was not in the majors), and she has set up his training s13 with some private lessons. Ballplayer has also offered to buy s13 a new baseball bat ($100+).
W and I early on in our separation agreed to keep op away from our children until after our divorce (no divorce action is now pending). She broke this agreement almost immediately, and I called her on it. I have not heard of any reports of W bringing om around the children since. But I don't ask.
So my question is should I ask s13 if he even wants some baseball tips from W's "friend"? Having someone help s13 get better at baseball is a good thing, but not if it is going to cause him stress. Should I let it pass without comment, or raise a stink about this? I have no evidence ballplayer is anything more than W's "friend", but perhaps this is a good opportunity to have an open discussion (again) about exposing our kids to other people. Any thoughts?
