Barb much love your way. You are so good are reading into things. I am excited but scared at the same time. You really define how I feel. 2nd marriages last even last than 1st M. This would be my 3rd. So i wonder knowing that 80% of 3rd M will end in D why am I bothering?. And her being scared also worries me.

The big one. And i didnt come here to lie. I came here to grow and get support. Is that getting M would trully put the nail on the coffin from my previous M.

That is my internal conflict.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden