I'm at a loss too. I guess you can carry on like this for a while but at some point it's going to come to a head and definitive action will have to be taken. She's carrying on with her life and you are with yours but there's a huge elephant in the room. You may see it and ignore it. She may not even see it.
Is she still working with OM? Or has that transfer happened?
IC can help you. Keep it up. I know it's a long road we're both on.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
