If your wife gets fired after you internally jump for joy, this is what you need to do:
Immediately be super supportive of your wife and MAD at the hospital. How dare they fire her and let OM keep his job. He is the superior so if anyone gets fired it should be him. Then make an appointment at a lawyer and pursue suing the hospital for this. Sexual harassment, etc. Your lawyer can throw the book at them. The hospital doesn't care. They have insurance for this. They will pay up even if it's just a nuisance settlement. They will do whatever the doctors want and walk all over whomever they want and let their lawyers sort out the mess.
BUT....this is a huge opportunity for you to be on her side bonding with her in her anger at the hospital (and OM) for this huge injustice. You and her get to be a team against the hospital AND OM. Not only did OM dump her but he got her fired too. This would be the complete death nell of the affair and you get to step in an be the knight in shining armor coming to her emotional rescue.
Oh, I found this by one of my favorite mod posters about what your 180's should look like (supporting my suggestion that displaying more emotion was OK in your situation as long as you aren't a wimp about it):
Originally Posted By: sgctxok
What is a 180.....?
A complete OPPOSITE of
your MORE OF THE SAME behaviors
your partner's stereotype of you
the things that irritate your partner about you
We discussed the More of the Same behaviors in a different thread....what would be THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE of that?
What are your partner's stereotypes of you.....and what could you do to completely blow that stereotype?
What about you irritates your partner? What can you do that is the opposite of that?
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
