Christian/Focus on the family marriage intensive. 3 days/20 hours. We lasted 2 days 11 hours. Within 3 hours into the counseling session she said unless God changed her heart she wanted a divorce. As the hours went by she became more focused on our son and how the things they were teaching us could be used for dealing with future communications over his care. They were very much interested in showing us why things went wrong in our marriage and how to fix it and how I could get on the right path also. She wasn't interested in that and kept re-directing the convo. I lamented that night horribly and pissed her off to the point of her saying I want my freedom, independence, to start over, to make my own decisions ect... I hadn't heard that before. She was always saying she was disconnected and done.
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9