As much as you want to be hopeful the tears are for or about you, it's more likely it's all about the OM. Glad she's calmed down enough to be cordial today. In less than 18 hours it appears she's toned it down.
Even so, this is a roller coaster. Imagine the first few days of cold turkey for an drug addict in rehab. There are good moments and bad moments...but you've no choice other than endure.
Not to fixate on OM's wife, but did she call or text you back. If your wife's boss knows it sounds like something happened at work between them all. OM didn't tell his boss himself unless he had to. Be nice to know what's going on. Tough to fight a war without information about the enemy.
No, OM's W never texted back. Troubles me a bit. Yesterday she pledged to keep in touch. Makes me wonder a bit what's going on. I know OM's W has friends at the hospital so I'm sure that's how my W's boss found out. OM is a doctor so there's no chance of him being fired.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
"But I believe W is referring to a period after the A was discovered."
Mindreading.
What about before the A? Did she ever try talking to you about things or recommend C?
The only time W ever mentioned C was a week or two before I discovered the A. And my intel leads me to believe that the seeds of the A had already been planted by this time.
After I discovered the A, W states that she tried to tell me before it ever got to this point. We had our arguments like everybody else but I can't recall any other serious sit down conversations.
In fact, W told me just the other day that when she purchased her 2015 planner in November, she circled our wedding anniversary and wrote "7 years of wedded bliss."
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
