As much as you want to be hopeful the tears are for or about you, it's more likely it's all about the OM. Glad she's calmed down enough to be cordial today. In less than 18 hours it appears she's toned it down.
Even so, this is a roller coaster. Imagine the first few days of cold turkey for an drug addict in rehab. There are good moments and bad moments...but you've no choice other than endure.
Not to fixate on OM's wife, but did she call or text you back. If your wife's boss knows it sounds like something happened at work between them all. OM didn't tell his boss himself unless he had to. Be nice to know what's going on. Tough to fight a war without information about the enemy.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
