Also, can you point me to where in Divorce Remedy it says to just ignore a spouse's affair? I know the book pretty well, and just re-perused the section on Infidelity, and I'm not seeing it.

thanks,

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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