My opinion differs a little bit from this. The point of DBing is to save the LBS. With a stronger LBS, then the marriage can be saved. That's the huge secret.
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I'm not sure why you would want to save this one, at least until she gets the treatment she obviously needs.
This one is not on the list to be saved. Focus is to get through to the otherside as unscathed as possible.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.