Alpha Step At A Time #5

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I'd arranged to meet W in town today to exchange kids. She didn't turn up, didn't answer her phone, didn't reply to text. I was on the verge of going back home when she finally called. Apparently she'd forgotten the arrangements and I need to remind her because she has a lot on her mind, 'bills to think about, and worrying about other things as well.' I did bring up that I wasn't happy but I didn't make a big deal out of it. She begrudgingly said sorry and that she didn't want to argue...amongst complaints of paying for the children on the bus (not my problem) etc.

I went to get the kids. On the way I thought of the act as if example in MWD's book. I imagined W would be expecting me to nag her still over her not turning up. Instead I gave a big smile and a bright hello. She reciprocated. I waited inside whilst W got kids ready. We chatted pleasantly, with no.mention of tickets or not turning up. She looked lovely. We chatted about mundane things, how she has spots on her back, the weather, the kids' morning out. She seemed in no rush for me to leave as on other occasions. We left with pleasant goodbyes and she was outlining when she'd see me next, along with her plans for this afternoon.

I've had the Kidd this afternoon. We've been to the park, played games, had tea, and bow they're going to bed.

Time to GAL. I'm going to my first pub quiz via meetup soon. I'm a bit nervous as I don't know anyone but also looking forward to it. GAL is.something else to focus on.and I feel good.

Edit: sorry for typos - typed via mobile