Tough, tough, tough day. I don't think I can say much about it except that I just got a huge slap in the face from stbx that says he didn't value me as a wife at all, and a lot of what I was hoping to be able to do for my kids may be out of reach.
On top of that he still insists on sending the kids back early on the disputed weekend though he says he'll pay for a sitter.
I lived through so many red flags just because I was married. I wouldn't trade my kids for anything but if I'd taken his behavior seriously years ago I could have avoided all this.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15