To contact him about signing, or not. That is the question.

It had been important to me that he initiated and did all of this.

Now, knowing what I do, it feels like too much to endure that he is married trying to get laid and happy as a clam with his outcome.

What would the waiting actually do for me? Give me the satisfaction that he finally carried out what he wanted?


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.