Sherman- I don't have a lot to add, but appreciate you taking the time to detail/blog what's going on. I think you're doing a great job, minus a few relapses. I'd say just keep doing what you're doing. I know the point of DBing is to save marriages, but I'm not sure why you would want to save this one, at least until she gets the treatment she obviously needs. She's so deep in the fog, she doesn't even know which way to go.
Best of luck to you!
M: 8 years, together 9 M: 41 W: 32 D 4, S 6 ILYBINILWY 2/10/15 2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home 4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread 4/19/15 W asked for D
