People do it all the time. Maybe ask the judge's assistant if there is a state facility where exchanges might be done, 15 minutes apart from each other or something? Where there's a will there's a way, Sherman.
I'll discuss with the lawyer. I know he has a ton more experience with this...
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.