My first marriage dissolved when I left him for another man. We married very young, I was 20 and he was 23. I was pregnant and thought I was doing the right thing by getting married. We parted amicably for the most part ten years later. We both had been having affairs for years (open marriage). Not something I'm proud off and never really wanted. I had a long term relationship with the man I left my marriage for, for 8 years. He became involved more and more in drugs. Became very violent. It ended very badly. I was single for 2 years before I met my husband. I was very proud of myself and was doing quite well on my own. Raising my children and taking care of my house. I met my husband and fell in love immediately. He was sensitive, kind, caring man. So unlike my exes. It was almost a role reversal. I was the strong one and he was not.
My husband was never married. No children. He had a long term girlfriend that wanted to get married and have children. He broke it off with her because he does not want to have kids. Perfect I thought. No baggage, no exes, no kids. How wrong I was. He became like my third child that I had to take care of.
My son is no longer at home, but my daughter still lives with me. There are issues with her and I am trying my best to deal with. This always caused problems. He said I was a bad parent, because I wanted to take care of my kids. I know I need my kids to be more independant and am trying to enforce that.
Other issue we had was my animals, I have 5 cats, a dog and his 2 Guinea Pigs. When I became Sick, I could not keep the house clean to his liking and work full time. The house suffered. No one would help me much. Only if I asked and I hate to ask anyone for help.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
