"Your older D may be angry as she has been deceived and her mom is not her idea of her mom any more. Let D cope with her own feelings because she will. Like you she can have no control over her mom."
This is exactly what I told her. I am just there to listen and support her. Older D and I have always been close. This is new ground for me! In the past I would have sat W down and said "look what you are doing to your family". Not anymore! I am only trying to control the one thing I can control, ME!!
I do love my W. But I am not a fan of the present W. The person I know now is NOT the same person I married. I see glimpses of that person once in awhile. I am currently standing for my kids mostly and because of my beliefs.
By the way, I am also a fan of "Rocket Man"! And Lynard Skynard also helps me detach at night! I sing "Sweet Home Alabama" so W can hear. It is one of her favorite movies!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
