Congratulations Onguard, this seems like excellent news.
It does seem from what you're saying that your W is coming to her senses. If you haven't asked for transparency in a while then I think it's time that you start laying out your conditions for a potential R, should that be what you want.
Disagree, Alpha. He needs to wait for her to ask the essential "What will it take?" question, or make a "I'll do anything!" statement.
She's close, but to repeat his boundaries now -- when she hasn't asked -- only weakens them.
