Parker, I hesitate to say this because there are no excuses- you are 100% accountable for your choices. I can see, though, that after the first A and how easily it was forgiven, how you might have another. And how this could quickly turn into a way of life. I've always thought a one night stand was different than serial affairs, but with no consequences it makes sense that it could play out that way. Had your W drawn serious boundaries and drawn a line in the sand you might have been forced to a decision much sooner. LET THIS BE A LESSON FOR THE LBS'S THAT LET THEIR H BACK TO EASILY!