I truly believe she does not have good intentions for our marriage. Please give some input.
Then move on. Serial infidelity is an EXTREMELY tough nut to crack, and that's WITH the person wanting to change and getting the help of a good individual -- and marriage -- counselor.
I also think her "no physical relations" thing is because she doesn't want to "cheat" on her OM. Twisted, yeah I know, but that's pretty much SCRIPT.