W tried to call a few more times last night. Didn't answer. I knew all that was on the other end was anger and abuse.

W sends text this morning that basically says:
-we need to sort things out asap so we both can move on
-W only interested in a professional relationship
-any ideas about amicable separation are off table
-we can if I want to attempt this/sorting out finances on our own
-we can take care of biz, sign papers, and move on
-W wants to know asap this morn or she will be speaking with L today

Here is the text I plan to send:
"Good morning W. I am not ready to sign the papers yet. If you feel that you need to speak with a lawyer, I understand."


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15