As I last stated in my post. Wife has agreed to go back to couseling. She has informed me that we will have no physical relations during this time because of the emotions it will cause. Wife says we will follow only couselers guide lines. Also still telling me she does not no what she wants. I feel the reason she wants no physical contact is because this would start the hole process of the seperation agreement over for the year we have to be seperated for her to file foe divorce. I have not signed any paper from her lawyer yet. She is really pushing me to sign this giving her primary custody of my son. She has a fear I will try and take him away. It looks to me that if she really wanted to work on the marriage she would have never had an agreement drew up wanting me to sign. Also she wants very little contact with me. I do have an attorney that knows all this also. Could someone please give me some advice. How should I handle this. Do I wait or move on. If I wait and take a chance hoping she will wake up what do I do and how do i act. I do believe there is another man that's more than friends as she says that is one of the members of her new friends group.