I got angry because my fort is on fire (Al Turtle) Andthe anger is healthy and stops the long term destroying effects of resentment. I got mad because I chose too and it was useful. Screaming Banshee stayed in the cupboard.
Joe, you like me are standing for your M, until you no longer wish to stand. You love your W as I love my H. I want a new M where I am respected.
Your older D may be angry as she has been deceived and her mom is not her idea of her mom any more. Let D cope with her own feelings because she will. Like you she can have no control over her mom.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW