Out of my element on this (wait I consider myself in an element for other things? I digress)
Anyway, I think you said what you said. There's a reason for it. Short of it is she still made a 'choice' maybe under some distress, but that's in the past.
Remember how tough it was when she was waffling back and forth? Don't do that to her.
You know where she stands, she's not ready yet. She hasn't done the work she needs to do....but now you know that unlike before during our BD's. With you or away, she still needs to do that work. As 25years says, a WAW will NEVER go back to the marriage they left; it has to be different.
Give her space, gauge how honest to be; you may even want to let her know that you understand she needs space; but have someone else chime in on that.
Good Luck, Tim. I'll be praying for you and your W.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
