Very typical. I told you above you'd most likely regret it in the very near future. You've messed with her crack pipe and she doesn't like it.
Your marriage can survive her anger. It won't survive her continuing to see and work with a cheating married man every day whether they are still "dating" or not.
Most likely your wife is about to get dumped. She FEELS she needs to file immediately to both punish you and make sure OM knows SHE is committed. This is full on affair panic mode and where weak men like OM crumble. Your wife is desperate to put the affair back in the box. Too late. You crushed that today by being proactive.
Also...be ready for it. OM is in spin mode. He is going to TRY to convince his wife that you are some crazy vindictive jealous husband of a woman he works closely with and he's just being nice to because she (your wife) is being abused by you. He (and maybe your wife) will collaborate to try to say you doctored the stuff you showed her and it's all a fabrication. OM's wife loves her husband and will desperately WANT to believe him.
Good job being calm tonight.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
