We married when we were 19 & 20 after 6 months of dating and another 9 months of engagement. We were kids. Both still in college. We grew up married. We have changed a ton together. My A's were a huge part of the negative of the marriage. That and the anger and control issues that went along with my A's and my insecurity. We have had a lot of great times though. We have a ton in common, both into fitness, working out, being outdoors. We both are loving parents and spend a ton of time with our 9 year old. We both love to travel and have done so. We have strong Christian upbringings and made that an important part of our lives. Except I certainly didn't live it with the A's. We are both pastors kids. She is and introvert, golden retriever, words of affirmation. I am Type A, clean/neat freak, very organized, regimen. Words of affirmation. I did a terrible job complimenting her. I am a career Firefighter and she is a union shift worker. Time together has certainly been an issue due to work especially the past few years. She has been working a lot more and we have had less time together. Not many dates or time alone as a couple. I believe she was/is pouring herself more into work because of my rejection and A's. Our sex life was good. I had some issues on/off due to the A's. Sometimes it affected my performance negatively and sometimes for the better, usually negative though. Sex with her became boring and routine quickly for me and I'm not sure why as I had nothing to complain about or not like. In the end, fall 2014 she was like a robot, sex was no fun, she disconnected, we stopped all together around the holidays as she was not into it at all and not into me.
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9
