I wont give u advice either (not). We in the helping profession hate it. But im sorry you went through this. I dont know why what happened to us happened. Inlike to think there was a purpose. And you dont need an answer today or even tomorrow.
i am very much like u. Always ending a painful experience with a joke or a smart ass remark or a LOL. I am still growing and learning.

What she did was not ok and u deserve better.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden